How to coach with NLP

Cover......Page 1
How to Coach with NLP......Page 6
Contents......Page 8
About the author......Page 10
Author’s acknowledgements......Page 11
Preface by Robert Dilts......Page 13
How to use this book......Page 15
Introduction: coaching and NLP – a perfect match?......Page 17
Part I The sessions......Page 34
 Preparing to coach......Page 36
 Contracting and the first session......Page 46
 Creating the coaching relationship......Page 62
 Mapping the client’s inner world......Page 74
 Questions that change beliefs......Page 96
 Subsequent sessions and how to shape them......Page 108
Part II The processes: helping your clients with . . .......Page 120
 Setting clear goals......Page 122
 Preparing for important events......Page 138
 Dealing with challenging relationships......Page 150
 Healing troublesome memories......Page 164
 Boosting creativity......Page 176
 Discovering a calling......Page 186
 Resolving inner conflict......Page 198
 Breaking spells and finding a new way of being......Page 204
 The power of hypnosis......Page 214
 Mastering NLP coaching......Page 220
Part III NLP coaching contexts......Page 230
 NLP coaching in the workplace......Page 232
 NLP life coaching......Page 244
 NLP coaching in other areas......Page 254
Conclusion......Page 258
Appendix A Studying NLP......Page 260
Appendix B Sixteen hallmarks of a great NLP coach......Page 262
Appendix C A contracting script......Page 264
Appendix D The coaching wheel......Page 270
Appendix E Submodality changes......Page 272
Reading list......Page 276
Index......Page 278