Success Intelligence: Essential Lessons and Practices from the World's Leading Coaching Program on Authentic Success

Success Intelligence (Revised Edition)(2008)......Page 1
Contents......Page 9
Prologue......Page 11
PART I: Vision......Page 18
The Manic Society......Page 21
Instant Success......Page 24
Inner Direction......Page 26
Pit Stops......Page 28
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP I-VISION......Page 30
The Busy Generation......Page 31
Permanent Busyness......Page 32
Busyness Audit......Page 35
Sigmoid Curve for Busyness......Page 39
Beyond Busyness......Page 40
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 2-VALUES......Page 42
The Hyperactive Workplace......Page 43
More Heart......Page 44
More Balance......Page 46
More Joy......Page 49
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 3--PRAYER......Page 51
The Joyless Economy......Page 52
The Golden Era......Page 54
Being Successful......Page 56
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 4-TRUTH......Page 58
PART II: Potential......Page 59
Authentic Success......Page 64
Reading Ourselves......Page 66
"I AM" SELF-RATING SCALE......Page 67
Who Am I?......Page 68
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP S-BIOGRAPHY......Page 70
The Self
Principle......Page 71
1. Self-image and Perception......Page 73
The Self Principle......Page 74
3. Self-image and Thoughts......Page 75
5. Self-image and Behavior......Page 76
Liberating Talent......Page 77
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 6-TALENT......Page 81
The Success Contract......Page 82
1. The Deserving Law......Page 85
2. The Work Ethic......Page 86
4. The Hidden Cost......Page 87
6. The Perfection Order......Page 88
New Beliefs......Page 89
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 7-FAITH......Page 91
Inner Dialogue......Page 92
Inner Listening......Page 94
Inner Choices......Page 95
Inner Wisdom......Page 96
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 8-DIALOGUE......Page 99
PART III: Wisdom......Page 100
Wisdom Is Not an MBA......Page 104
True Goals......Page 106
Intelligent Goals System......Page 107
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 9-GOALS......Page 109
Success Is Not Always Up......Page 110
Measuring Success......Page 112
Questioning Success......Page 114
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 10--Success......Page 116
Happiness Is Not an It......Page 117
Instant Happiness......Page 119
Inner Happiness......Page 122
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP II-HAPPINESS......Page 124
Money Is Not Your Purpose......Page 125
Money Sickness......Page 126
P3 Balance......Page 127
1. Impaired Vision......Page 128
2. Heart Failure......Page 129
4. Joyless Values......Page 130
The Money Trap......Page 131
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 12-MONEY......Page 132
Love Is Not Just an Emotion......Page 133
Love Is the Goal......Page 134
Love Is Intelligent......Page 135
Love Is the Work......Page 137
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 13-LOVE......Page 140
PART IV: Relationships......Page 141
The Broken Community......Page 145
Broken Bonds......Page 147
Broken Hearts......Page 150
Broken Lives......Page 152
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 14-RELATIONSHIPS......Page 155
The Independence Myth......Page 156
"By Myself Syndrome"......Page 157
"The Original Problem"......Page 159
Your Personal Best......Page 160
Shadow of Independence......Page 162
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 15-TEAM......Page 164
The Competition Block......Page 165
S4 Model......Page 166
The Competition Era......Page 168
The Tao of Competition......Page 172
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 16-SYNERGY......Page 174
Thin Conversations......Page 175
Thin conversations with the family......Page 177
Thin conversations between couples......Page 178
Thin conversations with children......Page 179
Social Literacy......Page 180
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 17-COMMUNICATION......Page 181
A Better Balance......Page 182
Me-We at Work......Page 184
Me-We for Life......Page 187
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 18-ME-WE......Page 190
PART V: Courage......Page 191
Shift Happens......Page 195
Constant Change Is Here to Stay......Page 197
Progress Is Happening Faster Than Before......Page 199
The Future Isn't What It Used to Be......Page 200
We Have to Exult in the Mess......Page 202
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 19-CHANGE......Page 205
A Failure Policy......Page 206
Talking of Failure......Page 208
Benefit of Failure......Page 211
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 20---FAILURE......Page 215
Further Education......Page 216
Past Mistakes......Page 218
Present Mistakes......Page 220
Future Mistakes......Page 225
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 21-FORGIVENESS......Page 228
Higher Learning......Page 229
1. Vision Principle: What Is the Fear?......Page 231
2. Wisdom Principle: What Is the Truth?......Page 232
4. Choice Principle: What Choice Do I Have?......Page 233
6. Alchemy Principle: What Is the Gift Here?......Page 234
8. Synergy Principle: Who Can Help Me?......Page 235
10. Purpose Principle: What Is My Real Goal?......Page 236
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 22-ALCHEMY......Page 237
PART VI: Grace......Page 238
Destination Addiction......Page 246
Living in the Not-Now......Page 249
The Cost of Impatience......Page 252
The Joy of Slow......Page 254
Be Still and Know......Page 257
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 23-GRATITUDE......Page 259
Insane Busyness......Page 260
The Space Program......Page 263
TODAY'S SCHEDULE......Page 264
The Effort Trap......Page 266
Less Is More......Page 269
180-Degree "Less Is More" Test......Page 270
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 24-SIMPLICITY......Page 274
The Failure of More......Page 275
How Much More?......Page 277
The Real More......Page 279
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 25-GOD......Page 283
The Energy Crisis......Page 285
The Human Function Curve......Page 288
Spiritual Fitness......Page 291
Success Intelligence on Burnout......Page 292
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 26-INSPlRATION......Page 294
PART VII: Renaissance......Page 295
Be the Goal......Page 303
"Here to Be Seen"......Page 305
"Be a Light"......Page 308
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 27-INTENTION......Page 309
The Big Fear......Page 311
Fears of Success......Page 314
FOSI-FEARS OF SUCCESS INDICATOR......Page 316
Beyond Your Fears......Page 318
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 28-COURAGE......Page 325
A Ph.D. in Happiness......Page 326
The Purpose of Happiness......Page 329
The Gift of Happiness......Page 331
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 29-SERVICE......Page 334
Saying Yes......Page 335
"The Yes Meditation"......Page 339
SUCCESS INTELLIGENCE TIP 30-YES......Page 345
Acknowledgments......Page 346
Notes......Page 347
Intelligent Goals System......Page 361
Success Intelligence Library......Page 366
www.successintelligence.com......Page 370