My Husband Wears My Clothes: Crossdressing From the Perspective of a Wife

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 CONTENTS
 ACKNOWLEOCMENTS
 INTRODUCTION
 CHAPTER ONE: A WIFE'S INTRODUCTION TO CROSSDRESSING
 DEFINITIONS OF TRANSVESTISM
 ARECROSSDRESSERS GAY?
 WHY DO SOME CROSSDRESSERS ACT MACHO?
 AREWOMEN SOMETIMES CROSSDRESSERS?
 THE SEARCH FOR TRUTH AND UNDERSTANDING
 WE CONTINUE TO GROW
 WE KEEP THE COURTSHIP ALIVE
 WE ARE SUPPORTIVE OF EACH OTHER
 WETRYTO UNDERSTAND
 WE KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN
 CHAPTER TWO: LIBERATION OF THE TOTAL PERSON
 THE NEW FEMALE IMAGE
 MASCULINE GENDER EXPECTATIONS
 MEN AND WOMEN, IS THERE A DIFFERENCE?
 AREWOMEN WEARING THEPANTS TODAY? A CHANGED MASCULINE LIFE SCRIPTTRANSVESTISM --
ONE STEP OUT OF MACHO
 CHAPTER THREE: ANEW MALE IMAGE
 RESISTANCE TO THE TRADITIONAL MALE ROLE
 EVOLUTION OF THE TRUE GENDER IDENTITY
 MELANIE'S STORY
 MELANIE'S NEW IMAGE
 CHAPTER FOUR: WHAT IS FEMININITY?
 THE GENDER CONTINUUM
 FEMININITY IS LOVE, CARING AND NURTURING
 FEMININITY IS BEING YOURSELF
 FEMININITY IS LACE, LINGERIE, BUBBLE BATHAND ROSES
 FEMININITY IS JUST BEING A WOMAN
 FEMININITY IS BECOMING A TOTAL PERSON
 CHAPTER FIVE: THE CROSSDRESSER AND HIS PARENTS
 QUESTIONS ASKED BY PARENTS OF CROSSDRESSERS
 HOWCAN PARENTS HELP? THE BEST ""TREATMENT"" FOR CROSSDRESSERSRESEARCH ON CROSSDRESSING
 THE AGE OF HUMANNESS
 CHAPTER SIX: THE CROSSDRESSER AND HIS WIFE
 DEALING WITH THE PROBLEM
 BORN AGAIN
 LETTERS TO PEGGY
 THE ANGUISH OF NOT BEING ACCEPTED
 COPING WITH JEALOUSY
 LEARNING TO ACCEPT THE CROSSDRESSER
 IS CROSSDRESSING MORALLY WRONG?
 OPEN LETTER TO A CROSSDRESSER'S WIFE
 CHAPTER SEVEN: IMPROVING THE MARRIAGE
 BE HONEST ABOUT CROSSDRESSING
 BE PATIENT
 HELP AROUND THE HOUSE
 BE BEST FRIENDS WITH YOUR WIFE
 DON'T FORGET THE HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP
 HELP THE WIFE ACCEPT CROSSDRESSING. WHAT HAPPENS IF SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT?WHAT IS THE ULTIMATE GOAL?
 CHAPTER EIGHT: THE CROSSDRESSER AND HIS CHILDREN
 MATERNAL INSTINCTS AND THE CROSSDRESSER
 MY ADVICE TO CHILDREN OF CROSSDRESSERS
 MY ADVICE TO CROSSDRESSERS
 CASE STUDIES
 SELF-AFFIRMATION
 HELPING THE FAMILY WIN
 WINNERS
 LOSERS
 THINGS LOSERS TELL THEMSELVES:
 CHAPTER NINE: THE EFFECTS OF SUPPRESSED FEMININITY
 BREAKING AWAY FROM MACHO
 FUSING THE GENDER ROLES
 THE LOVE OF FEMININITY
 WHY DO MEN BECOME CROSSDRESSERS?
 THE NEED TO EXPERIENCE BEAUTY AND ACQUIRE VIRTUE
 THE NEED FOR PERSONALITY EXPRESSION. RELIEF FROM THE REQUIREMENTS OF MASCULINITYRELIEF FROM BEING WHAT OTHERS EXPECT
 WHY DO SOME MEN SUPPRESS CROSSDRESSING?
 CHAPTER TEN: GETTING PROFESSIONAL HELP
 WHAT ARE THE OPTIONS?
 WHAT ARE THE CAUSES?
 WHAT CROSSDRESSERS SHOULD UNDERSTAND
 THE LAST SECRET
 CHAPTER ELEVEN: LEARNING TO LOVE YOUR HUSBAND ENFEMME
 DEAL WITH YOUR EMOTIONS FIRST
 HELP HIM FEEL NORMAL
 HELP HIM FEEL SUCCESSFUL AS A MAN
 HELP HIM CRYSTALIZE THE FEMININE SIDE OF THE PERSONALITY
 LOVE HIM
 CHAPTER TWELVE: HELP FROM ORGANIZATIONS
 WHY WIVES ARE AFRAID TO JOIN
 SOME FAREWELL THOUGHTS FROM BETTY
 UNITED WE STAND.