Date Like A Man: What Men Know About Dating and Are Afraid You'll Find Out

Title Page......Page 3
Dedication Page......Page 4
Contents......Page 5
Introduction......Page 11
Part One: The Warm-Up: Preparing to Date Like a Man......Page 15
Why Men Are the Master Daters......Page 17
Men Know What They Want and Need (And How to Get Those Wants and Needs Met)......Page 18
What Do Your Wants and Needs Really Mean?......Page 22
Developing Your “Most Wanted” Profile......Page 23
Reflecting on Your Mirror Image......Page 24
Men Like Themselves......Page 27
Men Don’t Think of Themselves as Victims......Page 31
Men Are Independent......Page 32
Men Know That Money Is Sexy......Page 33
Men Know That Power Is Sexy......Page 34
Men Know They Can Be Sexy at Any Age......Page 37
Men Understand the “Vision Thing”......Page 38
Part Two: Becoming a Master Dater: Women Can Be Players, Too......Page 41
Men Know Dating Is a Numbers Game......Page 43
Men Believe There Are Too Many Women, There Is Too Little Time......Page 48
Men Don’t Worry About Potential......Page 51
Men Don’t Talk About Relationships......Page 52
Men Don’t Overanalyze......Page 53
Men Don’t Feel Comfortable in Homes That Are Too Feminine......Page 54
Men Like to Take the Initiative......Page 56
Men Want Acceptance......Page 57
Men Know How to Set Boundaries......Page 6
Men Like History, But Don’t Reveal Your Past Too Soon......Page 60
Men Like to Sleep with Their Women Friends......Page 61
Men Can Have Sex with the Ex......Page 62
Men Don’t Like Nags......Page 64
Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Fixated......Page 65
Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Tactless......Page 66
Men Don’t Want to Meet Your Posse Too Soon......Page 67
Men Like Women Who Eat......Page 70
Men Know How to Protect Themselves......Page 71
Men Can Mix Business with Pleasure......Page 73
Men Should Treat You Like a Business Client......Page 74
Men Operate on a “Need-to-Know” Basis......Page 75
Men Who Don’t Call After the First Date Aren’t Interested......Page 78
Men Have Their Own Holidays......Page 80
Men Know How to Let Go......Page 82
Men Keep Their Private Dramas to Themselves......Page 85
Men Don’t Want to Be Bought......Page 92
Men Know How to Lose......Page 93
Men Know It’s Okay to Be Cocky......Page 95
Men Know How to Break Up......Page 96
Men Don’t Give Too Much......Page 98
Men Are Opinionated......Page 100
Men Don’t Like Wimps......Page 102
Men Don’t Like Princesses......Page 103
Men Don’t Like Women Who Are Wild......Page 104
Part Three: Dating the Master Dater......Page 105
A Man Will Treat a Woman the Way He Treats His Mother......Page 107
If a Man Is Mean to Service People, He’ll Be Mean to You......Page 108
Men Fantasize About Sex, Not Relationships......Page 109
A Man Who Cheats on His Wife or Girlfriend Will Cheat on You......Page 110
If a Man Says He’s Never Been in Love, He Isn’t Capable of Loving You......Page 113
When a Man Says, “You’re Not My Type,” Believe Him......Page 114
When a Man Says, “I’m Not Good Enough for You,” Believe Him......Page 115
Men Who Need to Find Themselves Aren’t Looking for Marriage......Page 116
Men Know It’s Okay to Look But Not Touch......Page 118
Men Like to Fix Things......Page 119
Men Like to Be Rescuers......Page 120
By the Time a Man Says He Loves You, He Probably Does......Page 121
Men Borrow Money from Banks, Not Girlfriends......Page 123
Men Know That Excuses Don’t Fly......Page 124
Men Like to Have Their Egos Stroked......Page 125
Clues That a Man Isn’t Interested in You......Page 127
When a Man Says He’s Not Ready to Commit, He’s Not Ready to Commit to You......Page 129
The Players......Page 130
Part Four: Having a Game Plan......Page 144
The Sexual Waiting Game (Men Hate It, But You Gotta Do It)......Page 145
Men Know How to Advertise......Page 148
First, Second, and Third Date Game Plans......Page 156
Men Are Fluent in Body Language......Page 161
Men Like to Flirt, Too......Page 167
Men Like Hair They Can Touch......Page 169
Men Respond to Color......Page 170
A Man Will Show You When He’s Not Interested......Page 171
Men Don’t Approach Women Who Travel in Packs......Page 172
Men Don’t Like Too Much Jewelry......Page 173
Part Five: How to Have Sex Like a Man: Sex Tips from Men That You Can\'t Live/Date Without......Page 175
Men Know the Difference Between Love and Lust......Page 177
Men Will Have Sex Anywhere......Page 178
Men Like Women Who Are Fit......Page 179
Men Like Blow Jobs......Page 180
Get to Know Mr. Happy......Page 181
Deep Throating......Page 182
The Moveable Feast......Page 183
Men Like to Watch......Page 184
Men Like to Masturbate......Page 185
Men Like Pornography......Page 189
Men Like Lingerie......Page 190
Men Like Fantasy......Page 191
Men Like to Talk Dirty......Page 192
Men Like Quickies......Page 193
Men Like Lesbians......Page 194
Men Don’t Like Condoms......Page 195
Men Don’t Like Kissing......Page 196
Men Like to Bring Home the Trophy......Page 197
Men Know Marriages Are Like Mergers and Acquisitions......Page 201
Men Want to Be the One to Propose......Page 203
Men Have Different Proposal Styles......Page 204
Part Six: Achieving Your Personal Best: With or Without a Man......Page 205
Men Love Sports (Duh!)......Page 216
Men Like Golf Courses, Not Continuing Ed......Page 220
Men Shop on a “Need to Go” Basis......Page 221
Men Go Places (A Calendar of Events)......Page 222
From the Mouths of Babes......Page 227
Afterword......Page 239
Becoming a Dating Champion......Page 240
It’s Time to Start the Audition......Page 241
Acknowledgments......Page 243
About the Authors......Page 250
Copyright Notice......Page 251
About the Publisher......Page 252