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ویرایش: 13 نویسندگان: David Knox, Caroline Schacht, I. Joyce Chang سری: ISBN (شابک) : 1305094441, 9781305094444 ناشر: SAGE Publications Inc سال نشر: 2020 تعداد صفحات: 1391 زبان: English فرمت فایل : PDF (درصورت درخواست کاربر به PDF، EPUB یا AZW3 تبدیل می شود) حجم فایل: 16 مگابایت
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List of Self-Assessments Preface Acknowledgments About the Authors Chapter 1: Choices in Relationships: An Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Diversity Choices In Relationships—View of the Text Facts About Choices in Relationships Not to Decide Is to Decide Action Must Follow a Choice Choices Involve Trade-Offs Some Choices Require Correction Personal Choices: Relationship Choices—Deliberately or by Default? Choices Include Selecting a Positive or a Negative View Most Choices Are Revocable; Some Are Not Choices of Generation Y Choices About the Use of Technology Choices Are Influenced by the Stage in the Family Life Cycle Global, Structural, Cultural, and Social Media Influences on Choices Globalization Social Structure Culture Other Influences on Relationship Choices Family of Origin (FOO) Applying Social Research: The Impact of Religion on Love, Relationships, and Sex Personality Social Media Theoretical Frameworks for Viewing Marriage and the Family Social Exchange Framework Family Life Course Development Framework Structure-Function Framework Conflict Framework Symbolic Interaction Framework Definition of the Situation Looking-Glass Self Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Taking the Role of the Other Family Systems Framework Human Ecology Framework Feminist Framework Couple and Family Technology Framework Marriage Elements of Marriage Legal Contract Emotional Relationship Sexual Monogamy Legal Responsibility for Children Public Announcement Types of Marriage Polygyny in the United States Polyandry Pantagamy Benefits of Marriage Marriage—Then and Now Family Policy: Couple Preparation and Relationship Education Is Marriage Obsolete? Family Definitions of Family Friends Pets Types of Families Family of Origin Family of Procreation Nuclear Family Traditional, Modern, and Postmodern Family Family Policy: When Families Are Destroyed by the Government Binuclear Family Extended Family Differences Between Marriage and Family Changes in Marriage and the Family in the Last 70 Years Technology and The Family: Robots are Here Research Process and Caveats Steps in the Research Process Caveats to Consider in Evaluating Research Quality Future of Marriage Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 2: Love Relationships The Meanings of Love Today Romantic Love Conjugal or Realistic Love Lust and Infatuation Personal Choices: Using Your Heart or Your Head? Love Styles Triangular View of Love Love Languages Technology and the Family: The Digital Language of Love Social Media and a Couple’s Love Relationship Social Control of Love Family Policy: Love in the Workplace Theories on the Origins of Love Evolutionary Theory Learning Theory Sociological Theories Psychosexual Theory Biochemical Theory Attachment Theory How We Fall In Love Social Conditions for Love Physical Conditions for Love Psychological Conditions for Love Perception of Reciprocal Liking Personality Qualities Self-Esteem Applying Social Research: Taking Chances in Romantic Relationships Self-Disclosure Physiological Condition and Timing of Love Keeping Your Love Alive Across Time Letting Love Die and Moving On Love as a Context for Problems Unrequited or Unreciprocated Love Making Risky, Dangerous Choices Ending the Relationship With One’s Parents Simultaneous Loves Abusive or Stalking Relationships Gaslighting Profound Sadness and Depression When a Relationship Ends Jealousy in Relationships Types of Jealousy Causes of Jealousy External Causes Internal Causes Consequences of Jealousy Desirable Outcomes Undesirable Outcomes Gender Differences in Coping With Jealousy Strategies Used to Cope With Jealousy Polyamory Advantages and Disadvantages of Polyamory Future of Love Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 3: Gender and Diversity Terminology of Gender Roles Sex Gender Biological Factors Technology and the Family: Shebot, Hebot, or Itbot? Social Factors Gender Identity Gender Roles Gender Role Ideology Applying Social Research: Gender Worlds of Sex, Betrayal, and Love Egalitarian Relationship Theories of Gender Role Development Biosocial/biopsychosocial Bioecological Social Learning Identification Cognitive-Developmental Agents of Socialization Family Race Peers Religion Education Economy Mass Media Consequences of Traditional Gender Role Socialization Consequences of Traditional Female Role Socialization Negative Consequences of Traditional Female Role Socialization Family Policy: Female Genital Alteration Positive Consequences of Traditional Female Role Socialization Consequences of Traditional Male Role Socialization Negative Consequences of Traditional Male Role Socialization Positive Consequences of Traditional Male Role Socialization Family Policy: Men’s Health Changing Gender Roles Androgyny Genderfluid Future of Gender Roles Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 4: Singlehood, Cohabitation, and Living Apart Together Singlehood Categories of Singles Never-Married Singles Divorced Singles Widowed Singles Individuals Are Delaying Marriage Longer Personal Choices: Is Singlehood for You? Reasons for Delaying Marriage Singlism Family Policy: Singlism—Policies That Discriminate Against Singles Changes in “Dating” Functions of Involvement With a Partner Technology and the Family: Finding Tinderella Tonight Changes in Dating in the Past 70 Years Hanging Out, Hooking Up, and Long-Distance Relationships Hanging Out Hooking Up Long-Distance Relationships Personal Choices: Making Choices on How to Maintain a Long-Distance Relationship Cohabitation Nine Types of Cohabitation Relationships Applying Social Research: Transitioning a Hookup to a Committed Relationship? Consequences of Cohabitation Advantages of Cohabitation Disadvantages of Cohabitation Pregnancy as a Precursor to Cohabitation Personal Choices: Will Living Together Ensure a Durable Marriage? Legal Aspects of Living Together Common-Law Marriage Child Support Child Inheritance and Access to Parents After Breakup Living Apart Together (LAT) Advantages of LAT Disadvantages of LAT Future of Singlehood, Cohabitation, and Lat Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 5: Selecting a Partner Factors Involved in Selecting a Mate Sociological Factors Operative in Mate Selection Race Age Education Intelligence Open-Mindedness Social Class Physical Attractiveness Weight and Height Marital Status Religion/Spirituality Politics Circadian Preference Traditional Roles Geographic Background Economic Values, Money Management, and Debt Psychological Factors Operative in Mate Selection Complementary-Needs Theory Exchange Theory Role Theory Attachment Theory Undesirable Personality Characteristics of a Potential Mate Female Attraction to “Bad Boys” Personal Choices: Who Is the Best Person for You to Marry? Biological Factors Operative in Mate Selection Sociobiological Factors Operative in Mate Selection Sociobiology Criticisms of the Sociobiological Perspective Cultural Factors of Mate Selection Endogamy Exogamy Continuum of Arranged Marriages Finding a Partner Online Meeting Online—Advantages Meeting Online—The Downside Technology and the Family: Shopping Online for a Partner Catfishing Ghosting Speed Dating Moving Toward Commitment Having “The Talk” Engagement Premarital Counseling Applying Social Research: When There Are Discrepancies in Love and Commitment Visiting Your Partner’s Parents Prenuptial Agreement Family Policy: Increasing Requirements for a Marriage License Important Considerations Before You Say “I Do” Avoid Teen Marriage Date Partner for at Least Three Years Before Getting Married End an Abusive Relationship Before Marriage Compliment Each Other Often and Avoid Criticizing Each Other Marry Someone Similar to You Be Aware That an On-and-Off Relationship Is a Bad Sign Consider Your Parents’ Opinion Be Aware That a Good Sex Life Predicts Well for Relationship Success Don’t Settle Avoid Marrying for the Wrong Reason Future of Partner Selection Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 6: Diversity in Marriage Relationships Motivations for and Functions of Marriage Individual Motivations for Marriage Love Personal Fulfillment Companionship Parenthood Economic Security Psychological and Physical Well-Being Societal Functions of Marriage Marriage as a Commitment Person-to-Person Commitment Family-to-Family Commitment Couple-to-State Commitment Marriage as a Rite of Passage Weddings Honeymoons Changes after Marriage Legal Changes Name Change for Female Personal Choices: Is “Partner’s Night Out” a Good Idea? Mental and Physical Health Changes Friendship Changes Relationship Changes Technology and the Family: The Downsides of “Smart” Devices Parents and In-Law Changes Diversity In Marriage African American Families Hispanic and Latinx American Families Asian American Families Immigrant Families Polyamorous Families Benefits of Poly Families Difficulties in Poly Families Military Families Interracial Marriages International Marriages Age-Discrepant Relationships and Marriages College Marriages Forced Marriages Family Policy: Ending Child Marriages Marriage Quality Definition and Characteristics of Successful Marriages Theoretical Views of Marital Happiness and Success Marital Happiness Across Time Applying Social Research: Happiness and Power in Relationships Future of Marriage Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 7: LGBTQIA Relationships Basic Terms Sexual Orientation Gender Identity Choices in Language Technology and the Family: Gender Affirming Surgery Problems With Identifying and Classifying Sexual Orientation Origins of Sexual-Orientation Diversity Beliefs About What “Causes” Sexual Orientation Can One’s Sexual Orientation Change? Heterosexism, Homonegativity, Homophobia, Biphobia, Binegativity, and Transphobia Attitudes Toward Being Gay, Homonegative, and Homophobic Biphobia and Binegativity Transphobia Effects of Homophobia, Trans Bias, and Discrimination on Heterosexuals LGBTQ Relationships Sexuality and Commitment Applying Social Research: Trans Partner Relationships: A Qualitative Exploration Mate Preferences of Transgender Individuals Division of Labor Mixed-Orientation Relationships Coming Out to Siblings, Parents, and Peers Personal Choices: Risks and Benefits of “Coming Out” Same-Sex Marriage LGBTQ Parenting Issues Lesbian Mothers and Gay Fathers Bisexual Parents Development and Well-Being of Children With Gay or Lesbian Parents Rearing a Gender Variant Child Discrimination in Child Custody, Visitation, Adoption, and Foster Care Family Policy: Adoption of Children by LGBTQ Individuals and Couples? Future of LGBTQ Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 8: Communication and Technology in Relationships Interpersonal Communication Effective Communication Verbal and Nonverbal Communication Personal Choices: How Close Do You Want to Be? Words Versus Action Gender, Culture, and Communication Gender Differences in Communication Cultural Differences in Communication Making Choices for Effective Communication Communication During First Hangouts and First Dates Self-Disclosure and Secrets Self-Disclosure in Intimate Relationships Secrets in Romantic Relationships Personal Choices: How Much Do I Tell My Partner About My Past? Dishonesty, Lying and Cheating Dishonesty Lying and Cheating in Romantic Relationships Family Policy: Disclose HIV and STI Status to New Partner? Technology Mediated Communication in Romantic Relationships Texting, Relationship Formation, and Interpersonal Communication Applying Social Research: Impact of Technology on Intimate Relationships When Texting and Social Media Become a Relationship Problem Technology and THE FAMILY: Cell Phone and Tech Etiquette Sexting Video-Mediated Communication (VMC) Conflict Resolution Address Recurring, Disturbing Issues Identify New Desired Behaviors Understand Your Partner’s Perspective Generate Alternative Win-Win Solutions Forgive Avoid Recovery Sabotage Be Alert to Defense Mechanisms Future of Communication Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 9: Sexuality in Relationships Sexual Values and Sexual Choices Absolutism Virginity and Virginity Loss Family Policy: Sex Education in the Public Schools Sexual and Romantic Avoidance Relativism Script for Delaying Intercourse in a Relationship Applying Social Research: The Experience of Casual Sex Hedonism Sex and Gender Sexual Double Standard Themes in Women Making Sexual Decisions Personal Choices: Deciding to Have Intercourse With a New Partner Sexual Behaviors What Is Sex? Kissing Masturbation Oral Sex Vaginal Intercourse Anal Intercourse Sexual Readiness and Sexual Competence Cybersex Sexuality in Relationships Sexual Tempo, Relationship Quality, Cohabitation, and Marriage Sexual Relationships Among Never-Married Individuals Sexual Relationships Among Married Individuals Sexual History and Marriage Satisfaction Sexual Relationships Among Divorced Individuals Friends With Benefits Concurrent Sexual Partnerships Consensually Nonmonogamous Relationships Pornography Being Sexually Safe Personal Choices: Script for Disclosing One’s STI The Illusion of Safety in a “Monogamous” Relationship Sexual Fulfillment: Some Prerequisites Self-Knowledge, Body Image, and Health A Committed Loving Relationship Approach Rather Than Avoidance Goals for Sex An Equal Relationship Open Sexual Communication and Feedback Communication About Differences in Sexual Interests Having Realistic Expectations Sexual Compliance Impact of Job Satisfaction on Sexual Health Avoiding Spectatoring Female Vibrator Use, Orgasm, and Partner Comfort Sexual Growth Beliefs Technology and THE FAMILY: Sexual Enhancement Products Future of Sexual Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 10: Violence and Abuse in Relationships Nature of Relationship Abuse Violence and Homicide Emotional and Cyber Abuse Female Abuse of Partner Murder Stalking Technology and the Family: Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) Revenge Porn Recognizing and Resisting Abuse Recognizing Abuse Fighting Back: What Is the Best Strategy? Reacting to the Stalker Intervention Reasons for Violence and Abuse in Relationships Cultural Factors Corporal Punishment of Children Violence in the Media Gender Inequality Community Factors Individual Factors Relationship Factors Family Factors Child Abuse in Family of Origin Family Conflict Parents Who Abuse Each Other Sexual Coercion, Sexual Assault, and Rape Who Commits Rape? Rape Myths Applying Social Research: Double Victims: Dating Partner and a Stranger Sexual Abuse in Same-Sex Relationships Male Rape Alcohol and Rape Rohypnol, GHB, Special K Campus Sexual Assault Reducing Sexual Violence on Campus Affirmative Consent Abuse in Marriage and Long-Term Relationships Abuse in Marriage Rape in Marriage Effects of Abuse Effects of Partner Abuse on Victims Effects of Partner Abuse on Children The Cycle of Abuse Why Victims Stay in Abusive Relationships Triggers for Leaving an Abusive Relationship How to Leave an Abusive Relationship Treatment of Abusers Child, Parent, Sibling, and Elder Abuse Child Abuse Child Sexual Abuse Family Policy: Megan’s Law and Beyond Sibling Abuse Elder Abuse Future of Violence and Abuse In Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 11: Planning for Parenthood Do You Want to Have Children? Social Influences That Encourage Childbearing Family of Orientation Partner Friends Religion Race Government Media Family Policy: How Old Is Too Old to Have a Child? Cultural Observances Individual Motivations for Having Children Unintended Pregnancies Lifestyle Changes and Economic Costs of Parenthood Lifestyle Changes Financial Costs Living Child-free Personal Choices: Is Genetic Testing for You? How Many Children Do You Want? Methods of Contraception One Child Two Children Three Children Four Children Sex Selection Applying Social Research: Are Male Children Still Preferred? Teenage Parenthood Infertility Causes of Infertility Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) Hormone Therapy Artificial Insemination Artificial Insemination of a Surrogate Mother Donor Sperm In Vitro Fertilization Technology and the Family: Fertility Enhancement Ovum Transfer Success Using Reproductive Technologies Adoption Characteristics of Children Preferred for Adoption Children Who Are Adopted Costs of Adoption Transracial Adoption Open Versus Closed Adoptions Embryo Adoption International Adoption Internet Adoption Foster Parenting Sterilization Female Sterilization Male Sterilization Abortion Incidence of Abortion Reasons for an Abortion Pro-Life Position Pro-Choice Position Confidence in Making an Abortion Decision Physical Effects of Abortion Psychological Effects of Abortion Effects of Being Denied an Abortion Personal Choices: Should You Have an Abortion? Future of Planning for Children Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 12: Diversity in Parenting The Choices Perspective of Parenting Nature of Parenting Choices The “Good Enough” Parent Seven Basic Parenting Choices Technology and the Family: Toddlers and Media Consumption Transition to Parenthood Transition to Motherhood Postpartum Depression, Peripartum Depression, and Maternal Well-being Personal Choices: Co-sleeping With One’s Infant? Transition to Fatherhood Transition From a Couple to a Family Parenthood: Some Facts Parental Roles Family Policy: Childhood Vaccinations: Public Policy and Parental Rights Overparenting Parents Are Only One Influence in a Child’s Development Each Child Is Unique Parenting Styles Differ Child Rearing Theories Principles of Effective Parenting Give Time, Love, Praise, Encouragement, and Acceptance Monitor Teens’ Activities Monitor Screen Time, Gaming, and Pornography Exposure Monitor Cell Phone Use, Texting, and Sexting Follow the Rules for Social Media Provide Discipline Encourage Responsibility Personal Choices: Should Parents Use Corporal Punishment? Teach Emotional Competence and Empathy Personal Choices: Boomerang Children Provide Sex Education Express Confidence Tell Children the Truth Respond to the Teen Years Creatively Be Aware of Texting Symbols Teens Use Single-Parent Issues Single Parent by Choice Challenges Faced by Single Parents Empty Nest Via Emigration of Children Future of Parenting Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 13: Money, Work, and Relationships Money and Relationships Money as Power in a Couple’s Relationship Effect of Money on Personal Well-being Work, Relationships, and Families Basic Rules for Managing One’s Work Life to Have a Successful Marriage “We-Talk” and Effect on Work and Marital Satisfaction Personal Choices: Work or Relationships? Types of Dual-Career Marriages Effects of Two Careers in One Relationship Effects of Both Partners’ Employment on the Marriage Parents and Work Effects of the Mother’s Employment on the Mother Family Policy: Government and Corporate Work-Family Policies and Programs Alternative or Flexible Work Arrangements Working From Home Gig Economy and Sharing Economy Jobs Technology and the Family: Telework Work and Family: Effects on Children Effects of the Mother’s Employment on Children Effects of the Father’s Employment on Children Latchkey Children Quality Time Child Care Considerations Quality of Child Care Cost of Child Care Balancing Work and Family Life Adopting a Superperson Strategy Cognitive Restructuring and Reframing Delegating Responsibility Using Time Management Engaging in Role Compartmentalization Balancing Work and Leisure Time Applying Social Research: Anger Over Romantic Partner’s Video Game Playing Functions of Leisure Individual and Relationship Problems Related to Leisure Intrusive Technology Future of Work and Family Life Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 14: Stress and Crisis in Relationships Personal Stress and Crisis Events Definitions of Stress and Crisis Events Resilient Families A Family Stress-Coping Model Stress Management Strategies Choosing a Positive Perspective Following Through With Behavior Dyadic Coping Exercise Family Cohesion, Friends, and Relatives Religion and Spirituality Humor Sleep Pets Harmful Stress Management Strategies Family Crisis Examples Physical Illness Mental Illness Midlife Crises Technology and Aging: Mental Health Issues Infidelity Types of Infidelity Reasons for Infidelity Applying Social Research: Reactions to Discovery of a Partner’s Cheating Alienation of Affection Lawsuits Children’s Reactions to Parents’ Infidelity A Comparison of Those Who Divorce and Those Who Stay Married Post Affair Successful Recovery From Infidelity Poverty and Unemployment Substance Abuse Family Policy: Alcohol Abuse on Campus Death of Family Member Death of One’s Child Death of One’s Parent Suicide of Family Member Applying Social Research: What to Say to a Person Who Has Attempted Suicide Marriage and Family Therapy Availability of Marriage and Family Therapists Effectiveness of Relationship and Marriage Therapy Tele-relationship Therapy Future of Stress and Crisis in Relationships Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 15: Divorce, Remarriage, and Stepfamilies Definition and Prevalence of Divorce Deciding Whether to End a Relationship Deal Breakers Choices to Make Before Ending a Relationship Applying Social Research: Romantic Breakup—Difficult Loss or Not? Macro Factors Contributing to Divorce Economic Factors Associated With Divorce Changing Family Functions and Structure Liberal Divorce Laws Fewer Religious Sanctions More Divorce Models Ethnicity and Culture Micro Factors Contributing to Divorce Growing Apart Depression Limited Time Together Low Frequency of Positive Behavior Extramarital Relationships Poor Communication and Conflict Resolution Skills Changing Values Onset of Satiation Unequal Housework In-Laws Having Positive Perceptions About Divorce Consequences of Divorce for Spouses Dwelling on a Previous Relationship Financial Consequences Fathers’ Separation From Children Parental Alienation Being Friends With a Former Partner Name Change Sexual Values Consequences of Divorce for Children Did the Children See the Divorce Coming? Estrangement and Other Negative Outcomes Positive Outcomes Child Custody Shared Parenting Minimizing Negative Effects of Divorce on Children How Late-Life Divorce Impacts Adult Children Prerequisites for Having a “Successful” Divorce Technology and THE FAMILY: Postdivorce Co-Parenting Family Policy: Should Divorce Mediation Be Required Before Litigation? Remarriage Issues of Remarriage for the Divorced Boundary Maintenance Emotional Remarriage Psychological Remarriage Community Remarriage Parental Remarriage Economic and Legal Remarriage Remarriage for Widowed Individuals Stability of Remarriages Stepfamilies Future of Divorce and Remarriage Summary Key Terms Web Links Chapter 16: The Later Years Age and Ageism The Concept of Age Ageism Caregiving for the Frail The Sandwich Generation Decisions About Long-Term Care Personal Choices: Should I Put My Aging Parents in a Long-Term Care Facility? Advance Directives and End-of-Life Decisions Issues Confronting the Elderly Income Physical Health Mental Health Family Policy: Physician-Assisted Suicide for the Terminally Ill? Insomnia Divorce Retirement Sexuality Applying Social Research: Sources of Sexual Interest In Older Couples Successful Aging Technology and the Family: Aging Relationships Across Time Midlife to Later Life Loneliness Looking for Love Living Apart Together Relationships Between Elderly Spouses Relationships Among Elderly Siblings After Parents Die Grandparenthood Effects of Divorce on the Grandparent-Child Relationship Benefits to Grandchildren The End of Life Death of One’s Spouse Repartnering in Late Life Thoughts in the Last Year of Life Dying Alone Future of the Elderly in the United States Summary Key Terms Web Links Special Topic I: Careers in Marriage and the Family Special Topic II: Contraception and STI Protection Self-Assessments Glossary References Index