Astrological Relationship Handbook

Cover
Contents
List of Figures
List of Tables
Acknowledgments
Chapter 1: Introduction to Relationship Astrology
	How To Use This Handbook
	The Laws of Relationship Astrology
	The Secret to Completely Accurate Interpretations
	The Right Tool for the Right Job
Chapter 2: Introduction to Human Relationships
	Being Human
	The Ego
	What are Relationships?
	Relationship Needs
	Need Bank Accounts
	Relationship Needs Accounts
	Relationship Checklists
	Wants vs. Needs
	Relationship Checklist Languages
	Relationship Blueprints
Chapter 3: Using Classical  Astrology to Create a Context to Find the Relationship in the Natal Chart
	Elements and Modalities
	Elements
		Fire
		Earth
		Air
		Water
	The Modalities
		Cardinal
		Fixed
		Mutable
	Temperament: Quadrants and Hemispheres
		The Southern Hemisphere
		The Northern Hemisphere
		The Eastern Hemisphere
		The Western Hemispehere
		The Quadrants
	Introducing Classical Astrology
	Introduction to Essential Dignities
		Rulership
		Exaltation
		Triplicity
		Term
		Face
		Detriment
		Fall
		Peregrine
	A Word About Classical Interpretations
	How the Outer Planets Fit In
	Dispositor Trees
		Step 1: Find any planets in their own sign (Rulership). Eachone of these planets will be the top of its own tree.
		Step 2: Find any planets in mutual reception by Rulership. Each pairof planets in mutual reception will be at the top of its own tree.
		Step 3: Look for a committee of rulers.
	Creating a Context to Find the Relationship: Elizabeth Taylor
		Part 1: Elements and Modalities
		Part 2: Temperament
		Part 3: Essential Dignities
		Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
Chapter 4: Safety Needs (The Moon)
	Exploring our Safety Needs
	Survival Needs
		Need to Know What to Expect
	Emotional Connections
	Boundaries and Personal Space
	How Do We Know We're Feeling Unsafe?
	Safety Checklists: The Moon
	Fire Safety Checklists
		The Moon in Aries
		Moon in Leo
		Moon in Sagittarius
	Earth Safety Checklists
		Moon in Taurus
		Moon in Virgo
		Moon in Capricorn
	Air Safety Checklists
		Moon in Gemini
		Moon in Libra
		Moon in Aquarius
	Water Safety Checklists
		Moon in Cancer
		Moon in Scorpio
		Moon in Pisces
Chapter 5: Validation Needs (Venus)
	Exploring our Validation Needs
	Group Acceptance Needs
		Acceptance by the Group
		Equality within the Group
		Prominence in the Group
	Self Acceptance Needs
		Asserting Individuality
		Equality as an Individual
		Self-Esteem
	Praise, Gratitude and Love
	Validation Checklists
	Fire Validation Checklists
		Venus in Aries
		Venus in Leo
		Venus in Sagittarius
	Earth Validation Checklists
		Venus in Taurus
		Venus in Virgo
		Venus in Capricorn
	Air Validation Checklists
		Venus in Gemini
		Venus in Libra
		Venus in Aquarius
	Water Validation Checklists
		Venus in Cancer
		Venus in Scorpio
		Venus in Pisces
Chapter 6: Can We Meet Our Needs?
	Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Pick One)
		Identical Moon and Venus
		Compatible Moon and Venus Signs
		Balancing Acts
		Conflicts of Interest
		No Common Ground
	Saturn Aspects: Checklists From Hell
		Moon-Saturn Aspects
			Moon conjunct Saturn
			Moon square Saturn
			Moon opposite Saturn
			Moon qu.incunx Saturn
		Venus-Saturn Aspects
			Venus conjunct Saturn
			Venus square Saturn
			Venus opposite Saturn
			Venus quincunx Saturn
	Uranus Aspects: Expecting Rejection, Fearing Abandonment, and Assuming Unreliability
		Moon-Uranus Aspects
			Moon conjunct Uranus
			Moon sextile Uranus
			Moon square Uranus
			Moon trine Uranus
			Moon opposite Uranus
			Moon quincunx Uranus
		Venus-Uranus Aspects
			Venus conjunct Uranus
			Venus sextile Uranus
			Venus square Uranus
			Venus trine Uranus
			Venus opposite Uranus
			Venus quincunx Uranus
	Neptune Aspects: Bad Boundaries and Hopeless Romantics
		Moon-Neptune Aspects
			Moon conjunct Neptune
			Moon sextile Neptune
			Moon square Neptune
			Moon trine Neptune
			Moon opposite Neptune
			Moon quincunx Neptune
		Venus-Neptune Aspects
			Venus conjunct Neptune
			Venus sextile Neptune
			Venus square Neptune
			Venus trine Neptune
			Venus opposite Neptune
			Venus quincunx Neptune
	Pluto Aspects: Power, Control, Manipulation and Abuse
		Pluto and Abuse
		Moon-Pluto Aspects
			Moon conjunct Pluto
			Moon sextile Pluto
			Moon square Pluto
			Moon trine Pluto
			Moon opposite Pluto
			Moon quincunx Pluto
		Venus-Pluto Aspects
			Venus conjunct Pluto
			Venus sextile Pluto
			Venus square Pluto
			Venus trine Pluto
			Venus opposite Pluto
			Venus quincunx Pluto
	Chiron Aspects
Chapter 7: Relationship Wants: The Descendant and The Vertex
	Understanding the Angles
		The Aries-Libra Axis
			Aries Ascendant/Libra Descendant
			Libra Ascendant/Aries Descendant
		The Taurus-Scorpio Axis
			Taurus Ascendant/Scorpio Descendant
			Scorpio Ascendant/ Taurus Descendant
		The Gemini-Sagittarius Axis
			Gemini Ascendant/Sagittarius Descendant
			Sagittarius Ascendant/Gemini Descendant
		The Cancer-Capricorn Axis
			Cancer Ascendant/Capricorn Descendant
			Capricorn Ascendant/Cancer Descendant
		The Leo-Aquarius Axis
			Leo Ascendant/Aquarius Descendant
			Aquarius Ascendant/Leo Descendant
		The Virgo-Pisces Axis
			Virgo Ascendant/Pisces Descendant
			Pisces Ascendant/Virgo Descendant
	The Vertex
		Vertex in Aries
		Vertex in Taurus
		Vertex in Gemini
		Vertex in Cancer
		Vertex in Leo
		Vertex in Virgo
		Vertex in Libra
		Vertex in Scorpio
		Vertex in Sagittarius
		Vertex in Capricorn
		Vertex in Aquarius
		Vertex in Pisces
	What Else Do We Want? What Else Do We Lack?
		Planets in the 7th and 8th Houses
Chapter 8: Putting It Together Part 1: Relationship Needs and Wants
	Elizabeth Taylor (Continued)
		Part 5: Relationship Needs
			Safety Needs
			Validation Needs
		Part 6: Can Need Be Met? Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
			General Safety Issues
			Uranus Aspects: Issues with Rejection, Abandonment and Unreliability
			Pluto Aspects: Power Control, Manipulation and Abuse
		Part 7: Relationship  Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Gemini
			Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Cancer
	Richard Burton
		Part 1: Elements and Modalities
		Part 2: Temperament
		Part 3: Essential Dignities
		Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
		Part 5: Relationship Needs
			Safety Needs
			Validation Needs
		Part 6: Can Needs Be Met? Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
			General Safety Concerns
			General Validation Concerns
		Part 7: Relationship Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Capricorn
			Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Sagittarius
Chapter 9: Relationship Houses
	Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
	Evaluating the Parents in the Natal Chart: Uncovering the Marriage Blueprint
	Relationships to Authority
	Other Relationship Houses
Chapter 10: Putting It Together Part 2: Finding the Relationship in the Natal Chart
	Elizabeth Taylor (Continued)
		Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
		Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses
	Richard Burton (Continued)
		Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
		Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
	Jennifer Aniston
		Part 1: Elements and Modalities
		Part 2: Temperament
		Part 3: Essential Dignities
		Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
		Part 5: Relationship Needs
			Safety Needs
			Validation Needs
		Part 6: Can Needs Be Met?
			Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
			Uranus Aspects: Issues with Rejection, Abandonment and Unreliability
			Pluto Aspects: Power, Control, Manipulation and Abuse
		Part 7: Relationship Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Aries
			Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Gemini
		Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
		Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
	Brad Pitt
		Part 1: Elements and Modalities
		Part 2: Temperament
		Part 3: Essential Dignities
		Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
		Part 5: Relationship Needs
			Safety Needs
			Validation Needs
		Part 6: Can Needs Be Met? Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
		PART 7: Relationship Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Gemini
			Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Cancer
		Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
		Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
Chapter 11: Evaluating Compatibility
	The Myth of Compatibility
	Compatibility Part 1: Elemental Compatibility
	Compatibility Part 2: Safety and Validation Needs
	Compatibility Part 3: Communication Styles
	Introducing the Synastry Grid
		Interpersonal Connections (Personal to Personal)
		Karmic Connections (Outer to Personal)
		Generational Connections (Outer to Outer)
		Reinforced Aspects
		Double Aspects
		Aspects in Synastry
			Conjunctions
			Oppositions
			Trines
			Squares
			Sextiles
			Quincunxes
			Semi-Squares and Sesquiquadrates
		Planets in Houses in Synastry
	Compatibility Part 4: Inter-Personal Connections
	Compatibility Part 5: Karmic Aspects
	Compatibility Part 6: Synthesizing Synastry
Chapter 12: Composite Charts
Chapter 13: Putting It Together Part 3: Comparing Charts
	Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton
		Part 1: Elemental Compatibility
		Part 2: Safety and Validation Needs
		Part 3: Communication Styles
		Part 4: Inter-Personal Connections
		Part 5: Karmic Aspects Richard Burton's Planets Aspecting Elizabeth Taylor's Planets
			Elizabeth Taylor's Planets Aspecting Richard Burton's Planets
		Part 6: Synthesizing Synastry
	Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt
		Part 1: Elemental Compatibility
		Part 2: Safety and Validation Needs
		Part 3: Communication Styles
		Part 4: Inter-Personal Connections
		Part 5: Karmic Aspects Jennifer Aniston's Planets Aspecting Brad Pitt's Planets
			Brad Pitt's Planets Aspecting Jennifer Aniston's Planets
		Part 6: Synthesizing Synastry
	Couple Number 3: Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward
		Paul Newman
			Part 1: Elements and Modalities
			Part 2: Temperament
			Part 3: Essential Dignities
			Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
			Part 5: Relationship Needs
				Safety Needs
				Validation Needs
			Part 6: Can Needs Be Met? Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
				Pluto Aspects: Power Control, Manipulation and Abuse
			Part 7: Relationship Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Cancer
				Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Leo
			Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
			Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
		Joanne Woodward
			Part 1: Elements and Modalities
			Part 2: Temperament
			Part 3: Essential Dignities
			Part 4: Dispositor Tree Diagram
			Part 5: Relationship Needs
				Safety Needs
				Validation Needs
			Part 6: Can Needs Be Met? Feeling Safe and Feeling Validated (Moon and Venus Connection)
				Saturn Aspects: Checklists from HellUranus Aspects: Rejection, Abandonment and Unreliability
				Pluto Aspects: Power Control, Manipulation and Abuse
			Part 7: Relationship Wants Conscious Desires: Descendant in Cancer
				Unconscious Desires: Vertex in Leo
			Part 8: Parents & Marriage Blueprint
			Part 9: Friends, Lovers or Spouses?
		Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward
			Part 1: Elemental Compatibility
			Part 2: Safety and Validation Needs
			Part 3: Communication Styles
			Part 4: Inter-Personal Connections
			Part 5: Karmic Aspects Paul Newman's Planets Aspecting Joanne Woodward's Planets
				Joanne Woodward's Planets Aspecting Paul Newman's Planets
			Part 6: Synthesized Synastry
Chapter 14: Relationship Counseling
	The Six Steps to Improve Every Relationship in Your Life
		Step 1: Identify What Needs Aren't Being Met in the Relationship
		Step 2: Identify How We Would Like Those Needs to Be Met
		Step 3: Reality Check-Are Our Expectations Reasonable?
		Step 4: Determine What Needs We Aren't Meeting
		Step 5: Meet Our Partner's Need First
		Step 6: Ask to Have Our Needs Met
Appendix: Relationship Astrology Worksheets
Bibliography
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